I am quite sure i’ve caught your attention now with the very title. Especially if you are in your early 20’s its more than obvious isn’t it? 😀
Whenever we come across “Love at first sight”, the very first thing that pops up in our mind is that it happens only in movies and fairy tales! Most people who are very practical in life do not believe in Love At First Sight because they feel that one cannot just fall in love with a stranger randomly on an extremely normal day! In this fast-moving, technology-driven world, many of us don’t even have the time to contemplate on whether it is actually possible to fall in love at the first sight. Still, there is one other category of people who strongly believe in the intensity and spark of Love at First Sight! And that’s where I place myself too. 😛 – though many of you might not agree 😉
I believe that love is there all the time, one just has to be willing to experience the beautiful feeling. Although it might not be as dramatic as it is portrayed in books and movies, it is something beyond words can explain. And one of the most disturbing things about Love at First sight is that it is more often mistaken to be falling for the external appearance of the person because, at your first sight, you only get a glimpse of the person. But always keep in mind that “Beauty doesn’t last forever but a Beautiful personality does”.
When you really fall in love (at first sight), you can’t really rationalise your thoughts. All you know is that deep down you feel certain about it. As crazy as it may sound, you may feel that you’ve made the ‘Best’ decision of your life. But trust me, that might really turn out be the best decision of your life! Be sure to get all excited and thrilled that you’ve found “The One” even though you’ve just met the person or have just made your first conversation with them.
Here’s the catch!
While the initial few moments are so wonderful and intense and just keeps you extremely happy, there are a few things that you might want to watch out for :
– First of all, you may be completely wrong about the whole ‘Love at first sight’ thing when it must have just been mere attraction that will die out soon.
– You hardly know anything about the person. Initially it is just your imagination that you are aware of and you try to assume that The One you’ve chosen is the person you’ve imagined. There are more chances of you being wrong here and it might lead to some major heart-ache!
– The fact that you chose your ‘Special One’ instantly and impulsively will mostly NOT be appreciated, encouraged or approved of, by everyone around-especially friends and family!
– It is a super-fast decision you’ve made and it is a fact that only with time relationships are built. You never know for sure if there is a possible future for the two of you.
But don’t lose heart!
It is possible to get past all the obstacles mentioned above. All it takes is the right time, the right situations and of course the right person! If you take time to get to know the person even after you’ve chosen them, to be completely sure of what you are getting yourself into and if you’re up for some risk and not to forget, lots of patience to take things slow without rushing into anything, you’ll be more than just fine!! There are so many relationships out there that started off as ‘Love at first sight’ and have lasted a life time because with time comes understanding, trust, and commitment and definitely loads of love and happiness!
So to all those reading this, if you’re still single, why don’t you just let yourself experience it?!
You only live once and “Love at first sight” is something that’s definitely worth experiencing!
Who knows, you might even spend the rest of your lives together!
I can’t help but think of one person every time I come across this beautiful quote.
“When I saw you, I fell in love, and you smiled because you knew” – William Shakespeare
Bindaas! KEEP SMILING AND KEEP YOUR SPARK ALIVE! 🙂
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